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Recovery Means Embracing Failure

Over the past month, I’ve been working with my son every day to help him with his…

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shame

Long Term Recovery Requires This

Those who know me also know that I’m a bit of a health and fitness nut. I work out most days and…

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fool

The Real April Fool

Around 15 years ago, when I was still struggling with daily porn use, I felt tremendously ill…

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enough

AM I ENOUGH?

In April, we are releasing a new YouVersion 7-day reading plan. I am very excited about…

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gym

3 Recovery Principles from the Gym

Last week it finally happened. I took my 13-year-old son to the gym for his first workout…

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prayer

Does God Even Care?

Years ago when I was dealing with my own porn addiction and shame, I know there were times…

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anxiety

the real enemy

Fear, anxiety, uncertainty, all these things impact all of us. They’ve impacted me. I’m sure they’ve impacted …

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SACRED-COW

Sacred Cows Need to be Shot

I can’t believe it’s already been a week since When Shame Gets Real was unleashed on …

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When Shame Gets Real Is Available Today!

I’m not going to lie…I’m pretty excited today because after months of writing, editing, and…

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Transparency Is Safety

Maybe you are reading this and wondering how transparency equates to “safety.”

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short term pain

Short-Term Pain vs Long-Term Gain

There’s a short little saying that’s been around as long as I’ve been alive. A saying that’s…

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privacy

The Privacy Myth

Have you ever had this happen to you? You call your bank because you need some information.

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sacred-cows

Slaughtering Sacred Cows

Now that we are less than 1 week into a brand-new year, there’s a good chance you…

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final-push

The Final Push – Will You Help?

We are in the final days of our 2021 year-end fundraising campaign, and I am going to be…

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Investing in Lives

If you’ve been following along with me at all the past month, you probably know…

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relationships

Accountability Equals Relationships

By now, we have all heard the word “accountability,” but what exactly is it? I don’t want to…

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opposite of addiction

The Opposite of Addiction

There’s a phrase that has been thrown around a lot for the past few years on social media…

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pandemic

Offering Hope During a Pandemic

Last March, in the midst of a pandemic where many people were isolated, Live Free…

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bar to entry

Lowering the Bar to Entry

How do we help people who need freedom and healing when it comes to their sexual behaviors…

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recovery support groups

Is Your Support Group Helping?

This should come as no surprise, but here at Live Free we believe STRONGLY in…

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accountability partner

I Don’t Have an Accountability Partner?

Lately, we’ve been talking a lot about accountability. What it looks like, how it helps, and why…

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accountability is

Understanding Accountability

The idea of accountability is one of the most misunderstood concepts I’ve run into working…

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accountability means

Accountability Means…

One common message you’ll usually hear if you are a guy who struggles with porn, or…

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Non-indigenous Threats

Non-indigenous Threats

I live in Southern New Jersey, and over the past 18 months we’ve seen a large influx of…

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grind

Grinding It Out

Do you ever have those days when you feel like your recovery is just a real grind? If not, then…

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woman-masturbation

Is Masturbation a Sin without Porn?

“Is looking at ‘this’ a sin? Is it wrong?” Maybe you’ve asked yourself these questions…

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crutch

Are you using your filter like a crutch?

There is no denying that along the road to freedom, there are resources and tools that…

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great-small-group

5 Reasons to Stick with Your Small Group

Last week I wrote about ditching your small group(s). Or more accurately… reasons why you may…

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small-group

5 Reasons to Ditch Your Small Group

Ever tried viewing a non-mobile friendly site on your iPhone or Droid? Not fun. You gotta pinch…

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normal

The Great Normalizer

Have you ever done something that you knew was out of bounds and thought to yourself…

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connections

Connections Only Go as Deep as You

Have you ever had this situation happen? You send somebody a quick text message. They reply…

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mountain

4 Recovery Lessons I Learned

Four years ago I ran a Spartan Race with my wife. And not just any Spartan Race…

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silence

The Silence that Kills

The reality is for every person out there who is clamoring for more help and conversation…

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gas pedal

Keep Your Foot on the Gas

I’ll be honest… I’d love to only share with you stories of freedom and success from…

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language

Why Language Matters

When we use words like evil, perverted, twisted, predator, abuser, we also communicate…

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Something to look forward to

Have you ever looked forward to something so much that you were almost oblivious…

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headline

Read Past the Headline

A couple of weeks ago I put out a blog post on our other site XXXchurch.com titled…

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A Legacy of Service

Today I want to share some sad news, but at the same time… some inspiration and lessons.

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lonely man

Goal Evaluation – Don’t Skip It

If you aren’t evaluating your progress and even your goals themselves on a regular basis…

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thinking

Integrity or Purity?

It’s a new month and a new year. And so in 2022, we and the Live Free Community are setting…

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Reach your goals

If you want to succeed, you need to set goals. This is a basic rule that all high performers understand…

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The Best Christmas Gift Idea

‘Tis the season, as they say, and like it or not; one of the highlights of the season approaches…

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Live Free for Wives Is Here

When we began, we set out to reach and help men (specifically) in their journey to freedom…

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Top Picks to help you

I just want to share some great resources I’ve read, watched, and/or listened to that…

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It’s Time to Stop Hiding

Have you ever held on to a secret because you just simply couldn’t bear the idea of…

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It Takes a Community

Have you read the headlines lately (other than the political)? Anyone else disheartened when …

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The Problem with Our Society

In a recent interview with Graham Bessinger, Dallas Cowboys quarterback …

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The Powerful Weapon of Hatred

Anybody who has struggled with pornography knows that maintaining their sexual integrity…

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The 10 Day Action Plan On Right Now Media

As you may know, we have a free course called the 10 Day Freedom from Porn Action Plan.

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4 Lessons About Freedom

In just a couple of days (if you are in the USA) we will be celebrating the 4th of July.

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3 Tips from Personal Experience

I just shot this video a couple of weeks ago and wanted to share it with you…

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Happy Birthday

I realize that typically one shouldn’t wish themselves Happy Birthday. But today I turn 49…

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Closing Doors

Hey , today marks a special day for me. About a year ago, I stepped away as the COO…

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Winning

How to Find Success In Difficult Times

Have you ever felt like giving up? Like you just couldn’t win? I have. We all have at times.

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COVID-19

COVID-19 and Control

I’m sure right now things are looking a little crazy for you. I know they are for me.

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Finish Lines

Last week I was scrolling through Instagram and I came upon a post from a men’s ministry…

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habits

Old Habits Die Easy

A little over a year ago, I got really serious about trying to tone up and cut down on some body fat.

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progress

PROGRESS OVER PERFECTION

Recently, I got knee surgery. Nothing crazy, just a little clean-out of some loose cartilage…

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reminders

REMINDERS AND ACCOUNTABILITY

Have you ever noticed how things tend to slip after a business has been around for a while?

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